Thursday, December 10, 2009

A Letter to Felix




Our back-up doula wrote a little note to Felix and I thought I'd share:



Dear Baby Felix,

You were a little late coming into the world as you were 10 days over-due. In that time you decided to grow nice and big which was a bit of a surprise for Mom and Dad. They didn't expect you to be quite so huge.

I had only met your Mom the day before you were born as her original Doula had to be away. That didn't provide us with a lot of time to get to know each other, but I sensed a very loving Mom-to-be. When your Mom went into labour the next day, I had the opportunity to go over to the house early and meet your Dad as well. They were both very excited and ready to meet you soon.

Your Mom stayed very calm throughout her labour and your Dad was always by her side. At one point when she was about to have a contraction she leaned into your Dad and he said "Come on. We'll do this together". He was very focused on making this the best experience for your Mom that he could.

Your Mom was a strong woman and managed your entry into the world without an epidural or pain medications. You gave her a bit of a challenge when she gave birth to you as you had an arm crooked up by your head. Mom and Dad laughed as they said that this was the position you held during the ultrasounds as well.

After you were born, your Mom and Dad would have little moments of the giggles as they were just so elated by your presence. It was so nice to see. I loved it and feel very honored to have witnessed such a joyful experience.

I know that you will be well taken care of little Felix. I only had a few hours to get to know your Mom and Dad but I saw plenty of love between them at that time. I know there will be lots of love in your life as your parents guide and protect you. Welcome to the world baby Felix!

3 comments:

  1. "We'll do this together"? No pain meds? I nominate you both for Best New Parents of the Year.

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  2. Um, you just made me cry. What a beautiful gift!

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